Protecting Our Elders: How to Recognize and Stop Abuse

Protecting Our Elders: How to Recognize and Stop Abuse
As our loved ones age, they deserve respect, dignity, and care. Unfortunately, elder abuse is a serious and often hidden issue affecting millions of older adults. Shockingly, 1 in 10 adults over age 60 experience some form of abuse, neglect, or financial exploitation. This mistreatment can happen anywhere—at home, in a family member’s residence, in assisted living communities, or in nursing homes. The perpetrators can be anyone, from family members and caregivers to healthcare providers and even strangers.
Family members, friends, and caregivers should learn to recognize the signs of abuse and how to take action if necessary. Here are some key insights and resources from the National Institute on Aging (NIA) to help you stay informed and proactive.
Types of Elder Abuse
Elder abuse takes many forms, from physical and emotional abuse to financial exploitation and neglect. Knowing what to look for is the first step in preventing harm. The NIA provides a comprehensive guide to different types of abuse here. Additionally, each state has an adult protective services agency that handles reports of suspected abuse. You can find your local agency here. If you believe someone is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local law enforcement agency.
Know the Warning Signs of Elder Abuse
When visiting an older adult, whether at home or in a facility, be attentive to possible red flags. Signs of abuse or neglect may include:
- A withdrawal from activities they once enjoyed
- An unkempt appearance, such as dirty clothes or unwashed hair
- Trouble sleeping or unexplained weight loss
- Becoming agitated, violent, or unusually withdrawn
- Physical signs such as bruises, burns, cuts, or scars
- Broken eyeglasses, bed sores, or other preventable medical conditions
- Missing medical aids like hearing aids, glasses, or necessary medications
- Financial warning signs, including eviction notices, unpaid bills, or a lack of necessities despite sufficient funds
- Living in unsafe or unsanitary conditions
Taking Action to Stop Elder Abuse
Many older adults who are being mistreated hesitate to report it because of fear or shame. They may worry about retaliation or feel powerless to change their situation.
If you suspect abuse, approach the older adult in a private setting and express your concern. Let them know you are there to help and offer to connect them with appropriate resources. You can also contact local adult protective services to report suspected abuse. You do not need definitive proof—authorities will investigate and take appropriate action.
Protecting our elders requires vigilance, compassion, and action. By recognizing the warning signs and speaking up, we can help prevent abuse and ensure that every older adult receives the care, respect, and dignity they deserve.
Source: IlluminAge AgeWise with information from the National Institute on Aging.